Mkazi wokongola, ndipo mauna pathupi lake amatsindika bwino mapindikidwe onse okongola a thupi lake. Koma bwanji kumuchitira ngati hule lakumbuyo sikumveka. Sindinamvetsetse anthu omwe amatsika! Ndipo ngati mukuganiza kuti wokondedwa wanu ndi hule, kulibwino kuvala kondomu kapena chinachake! Mulimonse momwe zingakhalire, sindikuganiza kuti mumakakamira mkazi kunyumba movutirapo.
Mfundo yakuti mlongoyo ali ndi chidwi ndi maganizo a mchimwene wake womulera ndi choyamikirika. Ndipo kuwunika kuyenera kwake kuchokera kumalingaliro amunthu momwe angathere. Koma kumufunsa kuti atuluke pamaso pake ndi chinthu chodabwitsa. Iye amutenga iye, sichoncho iye? Msungwana waulesi yekhayu sachita mantha konse - ndizo zomwe akufuna. Anamaliza kutulutsa chithaphwi chonse pamimba pake! Anachiyendetsa icho.